The Peacemaker Family
“Listen to the wind, it sings.
Listen to the silence, it speaks.
Listen to your heart, it knows.”
Native American Proverb
🟡 The Peacemaker Family 🟢
Let’s continue with the second soul family, the Peacemaker family.
💪 Main dimension and best qualities
Peacekeepers are here to explore the emotional dimension. They are therefore confronted with their heightened emotions, their difficulty separating themselves from the emotions of others, and their overflowing love and passion.
Key words for this soul family: “creativity” and “affectivity”. Their driving force is passion or love.
The limbic system and the cerebellum are what rule over this family.
This is where our subconscious lies, where our feelings come from.
Their main characteristics are sensitivity, creativity, artistic talent, originality, spontaneity, simplicity, friendliness, generosity, helpfulness, and an ability to forge connections.
⚡️ When things get difficult…
Faced with difficult or stressful situations, Peacemakers may play the victim, or they may complain and express depression, discouragement or melancholy. You will often find them feeling sorry for themselves.
It’s as if they were saying, “It’s my fault. You’re right.”
The Peacemaker’s wound is abandonment. So they are very sensitive to loss, separation, finalities which they often experience intensely as
abandonment.
🎯 Raison d’être
Their raison d’être —what they were put on this Earth to do—is to celebrate life and serve it by dedicating themselves to work, a cause, a creation, or by helping others.
What brings them down is when they give up on themselves and when they go to extreme lengths to feel loved. In order to spare themselves from any disconnection, they may lose sight of their internal compass to keep a relationship going.
Their biggest challenges can be described as follows: “I need to be grateful for the good things each day brings.” “I need to realize the power I have to create the life I want.” “I need to be a good parent for myself before I can take care of others.”
🧐 Other aspects
Depending on their ruling chakra, we call them yellow or green .
Key words to describe their connection with their soul family: “inspiration”, “creativity”, and “affectivity”.
What fuels them:
✔ A nurturing diet: carbs, salads;
✔ Self-help like art therapy, music, comedy, psychotherapy;
✔ Wind instruments, groups, parties.