The Peacemaker Family
“Listen to the wind, it sings.
Listen to the silence, it speaks.
Listen to your heart, it knows.”
Native American Proverb
🟡 The Peacemaker Family 🟢
Let’s continue with the second soul family, the Peacemaker family.
💪 Main realm and best qualities
Peacemakers thrive in their emotional realm. They struggle with their heightened emotions and their inability to distance themselves from others’ emotions, as well as their extra-ordinary ability to feel love or passion.
Key words for this soul family: “creativity” and “feeling”. Their driving force is passion or love.
The limbic system and the cerebellum are what rule over this family.
This is where our subconscious lies, where our feelings come from.
Their main characteristics are sensitivity, creativity, artistic talent, originality, spontaneity, simplicity, friendliness, generosity, helpfulness, and an ability to forge connection.
⚡️ When things get difficult…
Faced with difficult or stressful situations, Peacemakers may play the victim, or they may complain and express sadness, discouragement or melancholy. You will often find them feeling sorry for themselves.
They may say things like: “You’re right. It’s all my fault…”
The Peacemaker’s trauma is abandonment. So they are very sensitive to loss, separation, finalities. They interpret this pain as some form of abandonment.
🎯 Raison d’être
Their raison d’être – what they were put on this Earth to do – is celebrate life and help others. They often invest themselves in a cause, a creation, a charity or just helping others.
What brings them down is when they give up on themselves and when they go to extreme lengths to feel loved. In order to spare themselves from any disconnection, they may give over their internal compass to keep a relationship going.
Their biggest challenges can be described as follows: “I need to be grateful for the good things each day brings.” “I need to realize the power I have to create the life I want.” “I need to be a good parent for myself before I take care of others.”
🧐 Other aspects
Depending on their ruling chakra, we call them yellow or green.
Key words to describe their connection with their soul family: “inspiration”, “creativity”, and “feeling”.
What fuels them:
✔ a nurturing diet: carbs, salads;
✔ self-help like art therapy, music, comedy, psychotherapy;
✔ wind instruments, groups, parties.